You have a good life. The career. The money. The relationship. The family and friends.
And yet, there is something big you still want. You've been close, but haven't been able to hold it. Or maybe it's always eluded you.
I can tell you this: you'll never get it doing what you've done. Because what's in the way has been there so long you can't see it.
It's time to put it where it belongs, so it stops running your life.
I help you find it in ONE SESSION together, and it will change your entire life.
No one looking at your life would think anything is wrong. Which is exactly why you haven't said this out loud.
Maybe you came here for something specific. The business. The marriage. The money. Good. I want you to have it.
I'm going to tell you what I tell everyone who sits down with me: what you think you want is only scratching the surface.
A client hired me to monetize her podcast. Brilliant, successful, and ready for a breakthrough. I knew it wasn't really about having the podcast make money.
Instead she healed her relationship with her estranged father and is currently working with him to write his biography, took a year off to play with her grandson, and had a windfall of money show up unexpectedly. The podcast was never it.
I don't know what's underneath your goal, and you most likely don't either.
But I can tell you what it looks like on an ordinary Wednesday:
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You hit a goal, and you don't even enjoy it because you're already thinking of the next one to hit.
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You know your patterns, what triggers you, and how to calm your nervous system. But the patterns still keep happening.
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You are exhausted, but successful. A different person in the office than at home, you know exactly what to do, what to say and how to get things done. And it's really lonely.
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You're still secretly wanting the approval of someone you wish you didn't, and you don't know how to stop.
There is a little kid inside you making most of your decisions. A very smart kid, sure. They figured out how to stay safe and loved, and it worked so well they're still doing the job.
Everyone has a fix for you.
Regulate your nervous system. Change your mindset. Have a morning routine. Have an evening routine. Find a better strategy, a better plan, a better coach. You've tried it all, and some of it even helped.
But it's not going to get you what you really want.
And here's why.
You can regulate your nervous system with breathwork, saunas and cold plunges every damn day. But WHY it keeps needing regulation stays exactly where it is. You're treating a symptom rather than looking for the cause.
Please meet...The Smart Kid.
Sometime before you could write your name, you experienced a moment when you know something wasn't quite right. And you made a small subconscious decision about yourself. How you should or shouldn't act in order to live in it and be accepted, approved of, and ultimately loved.
It worked.
The Smart Kid grew up to be successful, high achieving, the one everyone counts on...
And they never left. The Smart Kid is still making decisions even though they are costing you everything. You keep treating the symptoms, and can't understand why your morning routine takes 3 hours and your supplements are the GDP of a small country.
Think about wearing pink-colored glasses. You have worn them for so long you think the sky is pink and you'll argue that you're right.
And you're wearing the glasses everywhere. In your career, your relationship, your calendar, with your kids. You can't see them blocking your vision when you're wearing them. You're too close.
THIS is what's actually in the way. You made a subconscious decision way back when to keep you safe, and you've been living inside it ever since. And strategy, discipline, or a regulated nervous system isn't going to get you what you really want...freedom.
It's not everything. It's one thing.
The shift isn't loud. It's precise.
So precise that whatever you came here for moves. The relationship. The career. The money. The house. The DREAM. It moves with ease, because you finally found the root and quit treating the symptoms.
And...the things you didn't know you wanted...start moving too.
You don't need someone to tell you what to do. You've had plenty of that. You need someone who can see your blind spots, and help you do the same.
When we work together, we find four things.
1. The moment.
You don't need a perfect memory. You need enough of one. Some people don't think they can remember, but they can. I've got 2 decades of training to help you find it. Once we're close, you'll know because your body tells you.
2. The lens.
Once you find the moment, you see what you decided about yourself. And you'll look at the impact it's made in your life. Your work, your relationships, your money, your TIME. Your health. It's never in one place. That's why it's often easier to treat the symptoms and not look for the cause.
3. The signal.
You'll learn what it feels like in your body when the Smart Kid takes over. A tight chest. A burning throat. A knot in your stomach. The desperate desire to run. You'll catch it, name it, and breathe through it. This is the part that lasts long after we've finished.
4. The result.
When the Smart Kid stops driving and you stop fighting...what felt nailed shut starts to open. More money from less work. A business built around your genius, not your grind. The relationship you thought was impossible. Kids who open up and trust you.
I don't teach you to manage it. I help you put it where it belongs...IN THE PAST...so you can create what YOU really want, and even more.
A man came to me after leaving a 20 year career as a minister to start his own company. He put everything into it, and was afraid of burning out, because the only way he knew to work was to work hard and do it all by himself.
We went back. He was five years old, fishing with his father. He dropped something important to his dad, and his father screamed at him. He decided that day that he could never make a mistake in front of anyone. And if he did, he would hide it.
Then, he saw how that decision showed up everywhere. In his marriage. With his kids. In his company. He had never connected any of it, but when he did...he felt FREE. He had power where he had been stuck. He had success with less effort and more joy at home than ever before.
I can't tell you what you'll find, that is different for everyone. But I do know that Smart Kid is running most of your life. And when you put them back in the past, your whole life changes and you experience freedom and ease.
Once you see it, everything shifts.
With ease and velocity.
FIND YOUR ONE THING
Within just a few minutes of chatting, Anna saw with laser precision exactly what was holding me back.
I came in asking how to move forward in my business. What she identified was a deeply held belief that I'd be abandoned if I built something amazing, and she showed me how that fear was holding me back in every single aspect of my life.
Within two hours of our session, the very same day, the Universe verified it. A friendship rupture. And instead of collapsing, I moved through it in hours, not days.
Anna instilled in me the deep belief that no matter what, I have my own back.
- Leslie
Anna was a relentless advocate for my inner peace, self love and growth. She helped me clean and widen the lens through which I viewed so many of my life’s big events.
- Sylvie
The Smart Kid has been running your life until now. Every goal, every yes, every "I'm fine" was created by a little kid making sure they stayed safe. And they did a great job getting you this far.
But you aren't here to keep writing the same story.
Meet...The Author.
The Author is you writing a new story. Not a new person. Not a better-behaved one. The you who was underneath that Smart Kid the whole time, patiently waiting for the permission and safety to be themselves.
The Author's Wednesday looks like this:
You finally hit that career goal, and you celebrate. You take the compliment. You tell someone about it at dinner and you're still smiling every time you think about it.
You notice your chest tighten when your boss calls and instead of bracing yourself, you slow down and breathe. You remember that you are The Author, not the Smart Kid. You handle whatever they need, and move on peacefully.
You know the next right step, and you take it. There's no committee meeting in your head first or consulting with anyone else. And if you need help, you ask for it easily.
Your kid says something upsetting at the kitchen table. You stay, and listen.
The three hours you work are the three hours that mattered. Peaceful and productive.
No more scanning for the next goal by lunch. You finish something and let yourself enjoy it.
No more naming your patterns while they run on schedule. Now you catch the old decision the second it starts, and it no longer gets the vote.
No more being one person at work and another at home. Now the same person walks through both doors.
The future you're building and the present you are living in is not the past with better branding. You create your life from a blank page, and every choice is aligned, peaceful and free.
FIND YOUR ONE THING
Meet Anna
For nearly two decades, I've helped high-achieving people see what they couldn't see for themselves. Not the symptoms. The source.
People tell me things they've never said out loud. They know I won't judge them, and I will always tell the truth. With me, you get my expertise, honesty, humor, and encouragement to be fully yourself.
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